It’s really not that hard to do and you’ll be kicking yourself for not learning this sneaky little trick sooner. Imagine sending an email with the following subject line: Now, when ANY woman comes across an email with that subject you can be SURE she’s going to open it. You have to follow it up in your email in a way that makes sense.
It involves using mystery and ambiguity in your subject lines. Don’t just launch into your message without explaining the subject line. Say something like: That’s just one of many messages I’ve sent to women and they just EAT IT UP!
They think they can just put together any old piece and women will respond.
This mentality is exactly what prevents some men from meeting anyone online. Writing a first email to a woman online is important because it’s the main tool used to get a foot in the door, so to speak. Even if you send out hundreds of emails, you’ll probably only get a few responses.
Now, I was doing some more brain storming the other day and suddenly I came up with another awesome way to get a woman to open my emails.
The email subject line I came up with was, Did something terrible happen?
The most overlooked aspect of online dating is the first email on singles sites. Or, they figure that regardless of how mediocre their email is, if they send an email to enough women, eventually they’ll get a response. In fact, I could argue it’s the most important step.
Did you know that most of the women you are emailing aren’t even OPENING your messages? Now, if most women aren’t opening your messages then they definitely can’t write you back!
A woman can’t reject someone she doesn’t know exists… As you know, attractive women are getting bombarded with emails from guys every hour of every day and you better BELIEVE that they are going to delete ones that don’t get their attention… So, what is it that determines whether or not a woman will open your email?
Unfortunately, a few responses won’t be good enough to get a date. Even the most unappealing women online have desperate guys after them.
Imagine how many messages – per day – an attractive woman gets. I have a friend that told me she receives at least 15 everyday on both of the singles sites she uses. So you have to realize that you’re dealing with some serious competition here.