However, it wasn’t until I broke the rules that I realized this type of situation can’t be so easily explained, or dismissed.
Experience is the best teacher of all and this particular experience was an eye-opener and game-changer for sure. I met up with a friend one Saturday afternoon at a bar for a football game. He was cute, charming, and we seriously hit it off right away.
Most of the time I’d rather have a bit of space from someone after a first date.
So Carrie – This is a very critical decision making juncture that you are now at … You can CHOOSE that if you want but my guess is that most women don´t feel good being in those situations.
You have to make a decision on your style of relationships and what kind of man you want for yourself ultimately – Do you want to work hard in the relationship and make it happen? They tolerate it because they simply don´t know any other way of being in a relationship …
I just said, ‘I’m still smiling.’ Thank fully he texted straight back to say ‘me too.’ If a guy likes you, a text isn’t going to put him off – he’ll probably be really relieved to hear from you.” Andy: “Only if the date really did go well, and you know that he liked you too. Also it puts the ball in his court – he feels like he’s got permission to phone you the next day.” Sarah: “No way.
If a man called on the way home I’d think he was a bit too keen.