Patriotic Alliance leader and businessman Gayton Mc Kenzie has taken time out of his busy schedule to advise South African men on women and making money.While promoting his soon-to-be released book Hustlers Bible 2, Mc Kenzie urged SA men to stop blaming women for going for Nigerian men.Some responses: “Love is love.” Jennifer (23), Angolan “I would only prefer to date a Congolese man because we both understand each others cultures.The connection is just better because we can relate in many ways since we’ve had a similar upbringing.” Sarah (24), Congolese “I love my Ghanaian brothers, especially those who can speak my tribal language. Especially when telling jokes, it just doesn’t sound the same in English.” Nana (24), Ghanaian “I will be with anyone as long as they are compatible to me and I’m attracted to them. I’m British.” Christopher (28), Nigerian “As long as they are not Jamaican.” Bijoux (28), Congolese “Dating someone from your own background has far more positives than dating someone from another background, such as cultural understanding, speaking the same language etc. I’ve brought a Nigerian, Jamaican and Congolese home.In fact, he says they must watch and learn from them as they are “the kings of Africa”.“South African men should forget about the scare tactic of lying about drugs regarding Nigerians, our ladies discovered it’s a blanket lie.” Nigerian men know how to treat women; spending money on them instead of writing poems, according to him.You have been raised on a different continent, in a different culture and with completely different values.
If you’re going to marry a foreigner, marry a white man.” These were the words that fell from my friend’s mother’s mouth when her daughter told her she was dating a Nigerian man because she was tired of Congolese men. ”, said my friend in response, defiantly challenging her mother, to my dismay (anybody knows better than to challenge an African mother! White people “White people don’t have much culture; it’s easy to adapt either way. Was it really for our own good to find our life partners within our own culture?Back then I didn’t have the emotional maturity for a serious relationship.I will never forget her smile when she looked at me with her beautiful big eyes and said I learned a lot about Nigerian women and about myself from this experience. I mean, the definitions of third base and fourth base vary. She was way too religious for that…I told you that you would be screwed without this guide.“Nigerian ni**as ain’t got time for poems, they give your girl cash and a good time. He does, however, say flowers are a good gift for your lady, only that without a bag or shoes, they will only work for a short space of time.“A relationship cannot last without gifts, this is not the Stone Age.” When men fail to impress their women, they always opt for calling them names, saying they are not loyal, he says.