Shutterstock A couple of days ago a friend and I were discussing another mutual friend–we’ll call her “Roslyn”–who was going through a divorce.Although the divorce hadn’t been finalized, her and her no ex-husband went their separate ways nearly two years ago.If you’re a divorced guy, you don’t need to hear it from me: divorce sucks. Basically every student that attends our weeklong residential program in Los Angeles who’s divorced tells me that it’s the hardest thing he’s ever gone through in his life.What’s more, guys who have been through a divorce generally aren’t in a huge hurry to get back on the horse and start dating again. At least as much as someone who has never been there can.However, as much as that made her feel like he was really into her, for the following four or five months he was telling me he'd made a mistake and wanted to come back - only staying with the new girl because he can't bear being alone.Not fair on either me or the new girl so.....sketchy area indeed in my experience.
DATING MISTAKE 1: I ignored the signs of his opinion on kids.
Not sure on this one - I think I would but like another lady said I'd have to be very sure they were completely over and know what their current relationship was like if they had kids.
My ex husband starting chatting to and emailing a girl he liked while we were still married and together, then told her her he'd left, then about a month later he left, and another month after that he's introducing her to our kids without my knowledge.
By putting more pressure on him, I pushed him away.
To avoid adding pressure, make sure that you know that you are both on the same path.